Splitting is a psychological defense mechanism where individuals perceive people or situations as entirely good or entirely bad, with no middle ground. This black-and-white thinking often emerges in adolescence and can be common in personality disorders. It serves to manage distress by simplifying complex emotional experiences, but it can distort reality and hinder healthy relationships. Splitting is categorized as an immature defense mechanism, reflecting its role in managing overwhelming emotions without the nuance of more mature coping strategies.
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Using Inner, you can track your thoughts and emotions around specific people or situations. Notice when you start to see someone as all good or all bad. Ask yourself what triggered this shift and how it makes you feel. Journal about the nuances you might be missing and explore more balanced perspectives without self-judgment.
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